Have you heard of Rachel Hollis? Rachel is the best selling author of Girl Wash Your Face and Girl Stop Apologizing. Rachel and her husband have a podcast called Rise and started a challenge called #last90days. The premise is that it takes 21 days to make a habit, but 90 days to change your life. Rachel and Dave chose the last 90 days of the year for this challenge for several reasons. First, it is the most stressful time of year, and we tend to turn to bad habits. Second, the holidays are upon us, and often we have to deal with extended family, and if that family is what Rachel and Dave label “toxic,” it can bring out the worst version of ourselves. Finally, due to the hustle and bustle of the holidays, we tend to neglect our health by skipping out on exercise and making poor food choices. I am guilty of all of the above, so I decided to join their challenge.
What does the challenge entail? First, Rachel and Dave want you to complete what they call the Five to Thrive. These are five things we commit to doing each day.
By committing to these five things, we are being intentional about taking care of ourselves and working on our goals for the next 90 days. These five goals bleed over to other goals we are working on, and we end up starting the new year with a bang.
Here is how the Five to Thrive is working for me.
I wake up an hour earlier each morning and write my to-do list for the day. I break it down into three categories – Must-Dos – Should Dos and Would Like To-Dos. I tackle the Must-Dos first and work on those until it is time for me to get ready for the office. Depending on the day, I either get my exercise done in the morning, at lunch, or after work. Some days it is strength training, some days running and other days it is simply walking at lunch to get my 10,000 steps in for the day. It does not have to be a hardcore workout. Any movement for 30 mins counts! I drink my water throughout the day. This one is quite easy for me, as I love water, and it is the only thing I drink besides coffee and tea.
I tend to write what I am grateful for during the workday. These must be very specific and can’t be as general as “I am grateful for my family” or “I am grateful for my job.” For instance, yesterday, I wrote down that I was grateful that I have a boss that understands work/life balance. The last of the Five to Thrive is the hardest for me. I gave up chocolate candy. I LOVE chocolate, and with the holidays coming, I tend to buy it and dip my hand in the bag way too many times. Hopefully, this will keep me from purchasing peanut butter cups or candy cane Hershey kisses!
I can already see it working in my life. By committing to the Five to Thrive, it has given me the energy and the determination to tackle the other goals I have set for myself for the last 90 days of the year. Growing this blog is a massive goal of mine. I have committed to a certain number of posts a month, restarting my newsletters, hiring a Pinterest manager, committed to at least an hour a week of learning, and more. I have mapped out a new training plan for my 2020 races, recommitted to clean eating, and committed to losing ten pounds by the new year. My environment is another area I need to focus on. My house needs purging and organization. I feel so much better when the clutter is gone.
Looking back at 2019, are you happy with all that you have done? Are there goals on your list that you have not quite accomplished? Don’t wait until 2020. By this point in the year, many people decide to wait until the new year to work on their goals. Don’t be one of these people. Drop me a comment and let me know how you plan to finish 2019. Let’s stay motivated together.
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Magan | 21st Oct 19
Hmm, I’m going to have to think on this one and decide if it’s something I would stick to. I think the hardest part would be getting up an hour earlier (I’m already up at 4:20 every morning to teach online classes, and I just don’t know if it could do it. Lol) It sounds like a wonderful way to end a year, though.
Heather | 12th Nov 19
Yes, I would not want to get up earlier than 4:20!
Kate Hall | 21st Oct 19
I love starting small and consistent. little baby steps grow larger, as these things go. It sound like you’ve made a pretty great start.
Heather | 12th Nov 19
Thank you. It is going well.
Ellen Mika Zelasko | 21st Oct 19
What a challenge! I feel like the getting up an hour earlier would be the hardest thing for me! But I also feel like completing a challenge like this really does change your life for the better. Good luck to you!
Heather | 12th Nov 19
Thank you. It actually has been pretty easy. It is getting to bed early so I can get up earlier that has been the challenge!
Rachel | 21st Oct 19
LOVE Rachel Hollis. The Five to thrive is great. Glad to see it working in your life. 😊
Heather | 12th Nov 19
Thank you!
Sonia | 21st Oct 19
I’ve been hearing great things about Rachel Hollis but really haven’t had the time to check her out. I like the idea of the Five to Thrive but I’m not sure that my life right now would let me stick to it. It’s something to keep on the back burner though.
Heather | 12th Nov 19
Good luck if you decide to try it. 🙂
Lisa | 21st Oct 19
I have heard of that book is really good. I will try this out
Heather | 12th Nov 19
She writes some great stuff.
Lisa | 21st Oct 19
Baby steps for me, and I love this challenge. The giving up 1 food is going to be hard but so doable once I set my mind to it.
Heather | 12th Nov 19
Yes. I gave up candy and so far so good.
Amy Irvin | 21st Oct 19
This is something I need to do.
Heather | 12th Nov 19
Give a try and let me know if you need any motivation.
Tiffany | 21st Oct 19
Glad that you have found motivation for the last push of the year! Rachel is awesome, but I hadn’t heard this one yet so thanks for sharing!
Heather | 12th Nov 19
Your welcome!
Pauline | 21st Oct 19
This is a great challenge. My friend just did the hard 70 days and is doing this one as a part 2. It’s awesome watching her gain confidence.
Heather | 12th Nov 19
Awesome!!
Michelle | 21st Oct 19
I love this challenge. I am all about challenges, and I am thinking I might get started and do this. I always try and do a challenge at the end of the year in preparation for the new year. I would like to start the new decade off with a bang.
Heather | 12th Nov 19
Yay!! Please keep me updated.
Erika | 21st Oct 19
Way to go Heather! I am also doing the Last 90 Days! Last week I hit a slump but am recommitting this week! I gave up chai lattes and its so hard not to hit the SB drive through on my way to work but my body and bank account will thank me!
Heather | 12th Nov 19
Woohooo!!!! You got this. Please let me know how it is going.
Lee Anne | 21st Oct 19
Great challenge! I’m in!!
Heather | 12th Nov 19
Woohooo!! How is going?
Malia | 21st Oct 19
Hot dang, you’re really going all in! I don’t know which of the 5 would be hardest for me, as I REALLY am not a morning person and would HATE to wake up any earlier, but also would struggle to give up a food. But hey, if it was easy it wouldn’t be a challenge, right?! I love it! Thanks for pushing me!
Heather | 12th Nov 19
Thank you!
jen | 21st Oct 19
I need to carve out some time to sit with my 2019 goals. I usually find a day in October to dp that and see what needs attention before the end of the year. Congrats on your progress!
Heather | 12th Nov 19
Thank you!
Karen | 21st Oct 19
That is quite the challenge but it sounds like a great one to make some big changes.
Heather | 12th Nov 19
Thank you!
Jennifer Morrison | 21st Oct 19
What a great challenge!!!! I am working on getting back to my early wake up, as I have started walking up later and missing some of my best time of day! I guess I need to take the challenge!
Heather | 12th Nov 19
Early morning is my favorite time. I am most productive.
Maria | 21st Oct 19
I may have to consider this challenge myself. It’s been an interesting year for me, and I’ve decided to make this blog 50% of my future. Goals, goals, goals! That being said, my life is not regimented, so I may modify and make it work for me! Congrats on all your milestones.
Heather | 12th Nov 19
Thank you! Congrats on making your blog 50% of your future. That is great.
Jen | 21st Oct 19
The quote you have at the beginning of this post really resonated with me… I have no problem keeping commitments I make to other people, but myself – that’s a different story. Thank you for sharing this inspirational post.
Heather | 12th Nov 19
You are welcome!
Matt Epley | 22nd Oct 19
I, likewise, loved the quote at the beginning. Why treat ourselves worse than we treat others? And I’m all for any book that proposes a plan that people will stick to. Way to go!
Heather | 12th Nov 19
Thank you!
Suzan | 22nd Oct 19
Slow and steady wins the race! Congrats on making goals and sticking to them!
Heather | 12th Nov 19
Thank you!
Lisa | 22nd Oct 19
I love your ideas for each day. I try to get moving for 30 minutes every day too! I love the idea of getting up an hour early…it’s amazing what you can do with that extra hour.
Heather | 12th Nov 19
Mornings are the best times for me.
Katherine Wolfe | 22nd Oct 19
Good for you for making those changes! And what a great post! I’m totally the person who says, “at this point, I might as well wait until Jan 1!” As a matter of fact, I said that the other day when thinking about joining Weight Watchers. You’ve given me food for thought, thanks!
Heather | 12th Nov 19
Thanks for stopping by!
Cindy | 23rd Oct 19
What a great idea! Sounds like you are doing so well with the challenge. I love this time of year. As it winds down I naturally begin gearing up for the new year.
Heather | 12th Nov 19
Me too. I am a planner!
Christina Furnival | 23rd Oct 19
I have heard Rachel Hollis but I haven’t heard of this concept before. I think it’s awesome! I don’t know about intentionally getting up an hour earlier (the kids wake me up in the night), or giving up a food because I like everything, but I love the idea of living with intention and doing things to form a habit that can change your life. How cool.
Heather | 12th Nov 19
Thank you 🙂