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Here we are, December 2019. Wasn’t it just 2017? It is crazy how fast these years are going by. I remember, as a kid, my parents telling me not to wish my life away. Now all I do is wish life would slow down a bit.
With the new year upon us, I am sure many of you have thought about New Year’s resolutions. However, may I suggest that instead of resolutions, you consider setting goals. Wait, you may be shaking your head and thinking, aren’t these the same thing? Actually, no, they are not. According to the dictionary, a resolution is a firm decision to do or not to do something. It is a statement of what you want to change. A goal involves setting, planning, preparing, and taking action. For example, a pretty common resolution is “I want to lose weight.” To change this from a resolution to a goal, you need an action plan. What do you need to do to reach that goal? How are you going to change your eating habits? What kind of exercise will you do? How many times a week will you exercise. Remember, a goal must be SMART – Specific, Measurable, Assignable, Relevant, and Time-Based. It is why I choose to make goals instead of resolutions. It simply works better for me.
Each year, around the 30th or 31st of December, I break out a new notebook and write down my goals. No goal is too big or too small. I break them down into four categories – Personal -Financial-Household-Recreation. Within those categories, I have subcategories. For instance, under Personal, I have health and fitness, this blog, relationships, and self-care. Recreation is broken down into trips I want to take, places I want to see, scrapbooking, and reading. Household is broken down room by room with what I want to change or fix in that room. Each goal is assigned a due date. I have found this helps me stay on track with my goals.
Furthermore, each month, I write down three big things I want to accomplish for that month and the steps I will take to get there. Every Sunday, I sit down with my planner and write my to-do list for the week. The items on this list will help bring me closer to my goals. At the end of the month, I go back to my notebook and see and track my progress.
I hope by sharing how I set my goals, it helps you in your goal setting. As the new year approaches, I will be sharing more on my goals and my goal-setting process. In the meantime, I would love for you to share your goals and participate in this exercise with me.
May the last 30 days of the decade be amazing!
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Do you have a runner in your life? Are you struggling with what to buy them this holiday season? As a runner, I always have at least one running-related item on my Christmas list. I surveyed quite a few of my running friends and came up with the ultimate gift guide for runners. Whether your runner is a beginner or has been running for years, there is something for everyone on this list.
AfterShokz Headphones
If your runner is like me, I need something to distract me when running. I love listening to a podcast or an audiobook. However, safety comes first. AfterShokz is a wireless bone conduction headphone that sits outside your ear. I can hear my podcast and everything that is going on around me. The sound quality is excellent, and they fit comfortably around my head.
A Good Running Watch
Most runners love gadgets, especially gadgets that will track their mileage, pace, etc. I have had a few running watches over the years and partial to Garmin. Their product is superb, and I have never had an issue with any of their watches. There are several models to choose from, each a little bit different. I currently am using the Garmin Forerunner 235 and love it.
FlipBelt
For short runs, I am okay with carrying my phone in my pocket or even in my hand. However, if I am going to run for over an hour, I will need fuel, perhaps my keys (if racing), chapstick, phone, etc. The FlipBelt is a great place to store it all. The belt sits snuggly around your waist and has pockets that hold quite a bit of stuff. It even has a clip inside to hold your keys.
Headbands
There is nothing more annoying than having my hair fly into my face as I am running. A good headband is a must. I have very thick hair and have found the brand Sweaty Bands work best. These are non-slip headbands that come in various colors and designs. I won’t buy anything else.
Hydration Vest
For those long runs, no one should be without water. Runners need to stay hydrated. Hand-held water bottles are fine, but after a while, my hand starts to cramp, or I run out of water too soon into my run. I solved that problem this summer by investing in a hydration vest. It holds 2 liters of water, has pockets for other fuel like Nuun or chews, and a place for your phone. It is lightweight and surprisingly comfortable.
Sunglasses
Just like our skin, we need to protect our eyes from the sun. Goodrs are all the rage at the moment. These are no-slip, no-bounce polarized sunglasses that come in different colors and prints. If I did not wear prescription glasses, I would have quite a few of these beauties in my closet.
Reflective Clothing/Gadgets
Many of us, at one time or another, have had to run in the dark. Reflective clothing is an absolute must. My favorite is the Tracer 360 Visibility Vest. It is lightweight, water-resistant, and can be seen up to a 1/4 mile away.
Gift Basket or Stocking Full of Goodies
I become giddy when I see that Santa filled my stocking with some of my favorite running things. Some great ideas are socks, Body Glide, lip balm. Nuun, GU, and gloves.
Recovery Tools
Recovery and self-care are essential when running. A foam roller will help work out any kinks, help relieve the muscles, and keep you running longer. I call it the necessary evil.
Stretching is also vital for runnings. A runner should be stretching before and after their workout. If someone is suffering from a particular ailment, such as piriformis syndrome, stretching even on the days that you do not run, is just as important. I found a great book that goes over many different types of stretches and takes the guesswork out of what we should be doing.
Nothing feels better than a comfy pair of shoes after a long run. This is especially true having just a runDisney race and then spending all day in the park. On my last trip, I discovered OOfos. The foam technology used in these shoes absorbs 37% more impact than traditional footwear foam materials to reduce the stress on your feet and joints.
Road ID Bracelet
Another favorite safety product of mine is the Road ID bracelet. It is a stretchy silicone bracelet that slides over your hand. It includes your personal information, your emergency contact information, and any medical issues you may have. I make sure to wear mine each time I go out for a run.
Run or as the case may be Shop Happy!
Last month Bill and I had the pleasure of spending two and a half days in the beautiful city of Amsterdam. It was the last stop of our Rhine River cruise, and we chose to spend an extra day to explore. We were not disappointed. Amsterdam is the capital of the Netherlands. It is famous for its canals, museums, beautiful homes, “coffee” shops, the Red Light District, bicycles, and more. During our time there, I compiled a list of must-dos in the city. By no means is this list complete. There is so much more to see and do, and we will be back someday to this fantastic city.
City Canal Cruise
Take a cruise along Amsterdam’s UNESCO heritage canals. The city has 165 canals. As we sailed through three of the main canals of the city (Keizersgracht, Herengracht, and Prinsengracht), we passed houseboats and beautiful canal homes (a canal home is a house that overlooks a canal). These homes are narrow, high, and deep. If you look closely, each home has a hook on the front. These hooks enable the residents to pull large, bulky objects up into a window. Most homes have very narrow staircases, and moving furniture in is a challenge.
Look closely for the hooks. 
Crooked House 
Canal house & houseboats
Another thing to notice about the homes is that they are crooked or lean forward. Many of these homes were built many, many years ago, and built on wooden piles. The piles were pounded into wet soil. These piles have not been able to stand the test of time and have begun to rot and sink, leaving the homes uneven. I think it gives the houses a bit more charm.
Other points of interest are the Magere Brug (Skinny Bridge), the Westerkerk Church, Anne Frank Huis, the InterContinental Hotel (George Clooney stayed there during the filming of a movie) and the Amstel River.
Skinny Bridge 
InterContinental Hotel 
Canal 
Canal 
Westerkerk 
Houseboat
Van Gogh Museum and Painting Class
The Van Gogh Museum has over 1,000 paintings, drawings, and letters of Vincent Van Gogh. The museum has the most extensive collection of Van Gogh paintings in the world. We learned about his life and came up close and personal with his greatest masterpieces such as “Sunflowers” and “The Bedroom” Unfortunately, photos are not allowed. I took this image from the museum’s website.
After the museum tour, there is an option for a painting class. The class was on a canal boat. A sketch of one of Van Gogh’s paintings was provided, as was the paint. It was harder than it looked. Bill did a great job, me not so much!
My sketch 
My painting 
Bill’s masterpiece
Rembrandt House
Once what was home to the famous Rembrandt, is now a museum. It was here he commissioned the renowned piece “The Nightwatch.” It contains an extensive collection of his etchings, and you can attend an etching workshop while there. Quick fact- Rembrandt’s wife and three children died in this home. He later lost it to bankruptcy.
Rijksmuseum
The Rijksmuseum is one of the finest art museums in the world. There are over 8000 works on display, including Van Gogh, Vermeer, and Rembrandt. You can also find the blue and white pottery that is famous in the Netherlands.
Anne Frank Huis
In my opinion, this should be on top of everyone’s list that visits Amsterdam. The museum focuses on the secret annex, where Anne and her family lived for more than two years before being arrested and taken away by the Nazis. It is a self-guided tour with the use of a listening device. We walked from room to room, where each room shared a different part of their story. It is such a moving tour. The photos of Anne are thought-provoking and remind us that we need to do better in the world. We can’t forget history, and we can’t let it repeat itself. Again, no photos were allowed, but I picked up some postcards to include in my scrapbook and to use here to illustrate what we saw.
Doorway to the home. 
Portraits of Anne 
Anne’s bedroom 
The bookcase moves to reveal a door to the annex.
Walking Tour of the City
On our last full day, we took a three-hour walking tour of the city; it began at Amsterdam’s Central Station, which in and of itself is a sight to see. Opening in 1989, 250,000 passengers pass through it each day. Our tour took us through Dam Square, home to the Royal Palace, the New Church, and National Monuments. We walked around De Wallen, the medieval city center. It is home to Amsterdam’s oldest church and the famous Red-Light District. It was quite the experience to see and learn how the city handles the world’s oldest profession. We also saw De Wagg, the city’s oldest non-religious building dating back to the 15th century and once part of the city wall. We walked through Chinatown, a flower market, and ended our tour at The Night Watch Sculpture. It was a great way to see the city.
Old church 
Red Light District 
Statute dedciated to the Sex Workers
The Night Watch 
“Coffee Shop” 
City of Bicycles 
This is just a small sampling as to what Amsterdam has to offer. I have many more photos to share and will do so in future posts. For now, I hope I have given you some ideas as you plan your trip to Amsterdam.
Thanksgiving is in one week, Hanukkah is in 4 and a half weeks, and Christmas is in 5 short weeks. The holiday season is upon us, and while it can be a happy, joyous time, it can also be a stressful time of year. Stress can wreak havoc on our bodies, break down our immune systems, making us more susceptible to illness. Follow these eight simple tips to stay on track and have a happy AND healthy holiday season.
- Stick to your morning routine. The days leading up to the holidays are hectic. In addition to our already busy lives, there is shopping, baking, wrapping, holiday parties, and get-togethers, school events, work functions, and more. Before we know it, it is bedtime, and we don’t know where the day went. Our morning routines play an important part in our day. It sets the tone of the day ahead, allows us to control our schedules and prioritize our time. By keeping our morning routines, we start our day with a positive mindset, and the day seems less daunting.
- DO NOT skip breakfast. Our cars can’t run on empty, and neither can our bodies. Start the day with a hearty, healthy breakfast to stay full longer. I find if I fuel my body correctly, I am more apt to skip the holiday goodies I see throughout the office. Or if I am out shopping, I will not fill up on fast food.
- Do some form of exercise a day. For me, this is usually the first one that falls off my radar during the holiday season. I claim to have no time. Well, guess what, everyone has time for a 10 min walk, 10 mins of strength training, yoga, whatever it is you may like to do. Not only is it good for you, but it gives you more energy to plow through the day. I have committed to 30 mins a day of some form of exercise. Some days are easier than others, but damn does it feel good when I am done.
- Choose your treats well. The average American gains weight between Halloween and New Years. This is not a free for all people! I am not telling you to give up your treats, but choose wisely. Pick the ones that you only have during the holidays. I can have chocolate chip cookies any time of year; however, I have a particular cookie I only make at Christmas time. This will be my treat of choice.
- Pace Yourself. I love a good holiday cocktail or two, but I hate feeling so crappy the next day. To avoid being hungover, make sure to pace yourself throughout the evening. Have a club soda in between drinks. Do not drink on an empty stomach. You will be thankful you did.
- Boost your immune system. Eat lots of fresh fruits and vegetables, get enough sleep, and oh, did I mention exercise? It will help keep you going through the craziness of the season.
- Hydrate. Our bodies crave water. It keeps everything flowing throughout the body. It will keep you full in between meals and, as noted above, help avoid that hangover.
- Take time to recharge. Don’t forget to take care of you. Whether it be a mani/pedi or 30 minutes locked away in a room with a good book, take the time. Not only do we need to be physically healthy but healthy mentally as well.
Last weekend I attended my 11th runDisney race weekend. In total, I have run 21 runDisney races. After my Mom passed away, I decided to run a half marathon in her memory — what better place to run and honor my Mom than my favorite place, Walt Disney World.
In February 2015, I ran the Princess 1/2 Marathon and the Castaway Cay Challenge on Disney’s private island. I was
So what keeps me going back for more? Here are seven reasons to run a runDisney race.
1. runDisney races are great races for beginners.
When I decided to run my first half marathon, the farthest I had ever run was 6.2 miles. I was nervous! I was still a relatively new runner. There were many races at home that required a runner to finish within a certain amount of time. In 2014/2015, I was running about a 12:00 min mile. Based on that, I didn’t bother signing up for races around here. I was afraid I would not finish or come in dead last. With Disney, there is a time limit, but so long as you can maintain a 16:00 minute mile, you are all set. I ran that race while stopping for characters, with plenty of time to spare. This race gave me the confidence to sign up for races back home. I am a bit faster these days and rarely worry about finishing a race or coming in dead last.
2. You run through the parks.
Ever dream of running down Main Street and through the castle? Or how about running around the World Showcase as the sun rises over the lagoon? These are just two of my favorite things when running a runDisney race. Each race weekend, the courses vary, but for the most part, you will run through at least one park, two parks if you run a half marathon and all four parks, plus ESPN Wide World of Sports if you run the marathon. This past weekend, the 10k course took us through Epcot, and the half marathon took us through the Animal Kingdom, Hollywood Studios, and Epcot.
3. Entertainment along the course.
What would an event be at Disney without entertainment? It is what they do best. At the start of each race is a DJ, corny race announcers, character meet and greets, and fireworks. Along the course, you can find much of the same. For most races, there is plenty of character stops along the way. The lines can be long, but the cast members do an excellent job of moving everyone along.
4. Costumes and more costumes.
Seriously, where else can you wear a costume and not feel judged? LOL! Hands down, this is one of the best parts of a runDisney event. There are so many talented people out there. The costumes are amazing. I am not gifted when it comes to sewing, so I jump on over to Etsy and buy a costume or two. I have dressed as various princesses, Mrs. Potts, Babette the feather duster from Beauty and the Beast, Rey from Star Wars, and more. I have so much fun with it. For my next couple of races, I am thinking of dressing as villains. What do you think?
5. Photopass photographers
Disney Photo Pass photographers are out there on the course capturing all those moments. Since I have an annual pass, all photos are included, and I never have to worry about capturing a moment or going bankrupt after I want to buy them all!
6. Friends
Runners are lovely people. However, Disney runners are even nicer! I have met some great people through my runDisney races. I have rekindled old friendships, as well. Wine and Dine race weekend is an annual trip I take with my friends from middle/high school! We had lost touch after college and reconnected after my Mom had passed. One day I posted I was signing up for the Wine and Dine races and asked if I had any takers. Both ladies said yes! This was our 4th weekend together, and we are already looking forward to next year.
7. Medals
The medals are the best! These are not little tokens of thanks for running. These medals are HUGE! The attention to detail is beautiful.
Have I convinced you yet? Will you be putting a runDisney event on your calendar? I would love to see you down there!
A couple of weeks ago, my husband and I returned from our second Adventures by Disney trip. We took a cruise down the Rhine River. We visited four countries and packed a lot in those eight days. We visited storybook villages, historical sites, world-renowned cities, saw castles, and experienced VIP service throughout the trip. Last year we sailed on a ten-day Mediterranean Disney cruise and added on an Adventures by Disney package. Instead of booking our excursions through the cruise line, we booked them through Adventures by Disney. I will explain what that means later on in this post.
First, for those of you that don’t know, Adventures by Disney (“ABD”) is a guided group travel option offered by the Walt Disney company. It provides culturally immersive, once-in-a-lifetime experiences in Europe, Asia, Australia, Africa, South, and North America. The trips range from 3-4 days (short escapes) up to 12 days long. There are river cruises on the Rhine, Danube, Seine and Rhone rivers. As mentioned above, you may add an ABD to certain Disney Cruise Line cruises.
Being a Disney fanatic, I had heard of these trips a few years ago. We had been to Disney World more times than I can count, and we had done several Disney cruises at this point. However, two things made me shy away from them, the thought of group travel and the price. I had always loved planning our vacations. I would spend hours looking for excursions, comparing tour operators, etc. When it came to going on our first family trip to Europe, I was a little hesitant. I looked at what Disney Cruise Line had to offer for excursions and was a bit surprised at how expensive these excursions were. As I was weighing my options, a brochure for ABD arrived at my house, offering what they called an “Embedded ABD.” The add on includes preselected shore excursions, led by two Adventure Guides. Each embedded ABD is capped at 40 people. The ABD consists of a welcome and farewell reception, activities on the sea days, a case of water, and all photos taken on your excursions and the ship.
The more I read, the more I was starting to see the value in the add on. I decided to give my travel agent a call and discuss it with him. After our chat, I booked it. Unlike the land-based and river cruise trips, the deposit was refundable if we decided we could not swing the cost. At this point, I had nine months to mull over our decision. During those nine months, I poured over reviews, talked to people who had been on this trip. By the time our paid in full date arrived, I was ready to commit. OUCH! It was the most we had ever paid for a vacation. Now mind you, we paid off the cruise that day, too, so it seemed extra painful. LOL.
As the trip got closer, I started to have buyer’s remorse. Every time I told someone what we were doing, I heard how expensive it was, how I could take the trip for a lot less money, etc. It was starting to annoy me and feed into my fear that the trip was not going to live up to my expectations.
Well, can I say… the trip was worth every single penny. We had an amazing time. The guides were fantastic; the excursions were incredible; we received first-class VIP treatment from the moment we stepped on the ship until we departed. I was hooked. The Adventures by Disney experience is second to none, and I did not hesitate to book the Rhine River cruise and our next adventure, the Canadian Rockies with ABD. So, what makes the difference?
The Disney Difference
Disney is known for its storytelling. The story is told through the Adventure Guides. In addition to the two guides, you are joined by local guides that immerse you into the culture. (Side note, with river cruises, you have six guides. ) You experience the culture and traditions of the local people. The Adventure Guides provide the first-class service that Disney is known for, and all of your needs are met beyond expectations. The guides do more than take you from place to place. They provide more information you could ever dream of about each destination. They make sure you are hydrated, feed, know where the good bathrooms are (KEY!!), and the best local places to shop and eat outside of tourists traps. They are photographers and great entertainment for all. You get to know your guides, and it makes the trip a more intimate experience.
Not only do you get to know your guides, but the other families traveling with you — most groups top off at 40 people, except for river cruising. I believe 130-140 is the cut-off. You spend a lot of time with these people, and we have made friends along the way.
Are you traveling with children? ABD makes sure to build in what they call Junior Adventure activities for kids. For example, when we were at the Colosseum in Rome, one of the guides took all the kids and did a tour separate from the adults. They learned all about this amazing piece of history, all the while acting as gladiators.
Another difference between ABD trips and other group travel is what Disney calls the Insider Access. The Insider Access includes things like an after-hours tour of the Vatican, with a private viewing inside the Sistine Chapel. How about a backstage pass to Good Morning America? Or perhaps an exclusive dinner at Edinburgh castle is more your thing. These are once in a lifetime experiences, and Disney makes it happen.
Have I mentioned how easy ABD makes traveling? Need help making airfare reservations? ABD can help. Want to arrive a couple of days early or perhaps extend your trip by a few days? ABD can arrange this as well. Once your adventure begins, there is no waiting in line to check into your hotels, and there is no carrying your luggage. Everything is taken care of for you. Sign me up!
Lastly, we chose ABD for Disney’s track record when it comes to safety. Safety is their number one priority, and I have the utmost confidence that ABD will always keep our safety in mind when traveling to these various destinations.
All of this is the Disney difference, and this is why we choose to explore the world with Adventures by Disney.
If you would like to read more about our trips with Adventures By Disney check out these posts.
Have you heard of Rachel Hollis? Rachel is the best selling author of Girl Wash Your Face and Girl Stop Apologizing. Rachel and her husband have a podcast called Rise and started a challenge called #last90days. The premise is that it takes 21 days to make a habit, but 90 days to change your life. Rachel and Dave chose the last 90 days of the year for this challenge for several reasons. First, it is the most stressful time of year, and we tend to turn to bad habits. Second, the holidays are upon us, and often we have to deal with extended family, and if that family is what Rachel and Dave label “toxic,” it can bring out the worst version of ourselves. Finally, due to the hustle and bustle of the holidays, we tend to neglect our health by skipping out on exercise and making poor food choices. I am guilty of all of the above, so I decided to join their challenge.
What does the challenge entail? First, Rachel and Dave want you to complete what they call the Five to Thrive. These are five things we commit to doing each day.
- Get up an hour earlier each day.
- Write down 3 things I am grateful for each day.
- Drink half my body weight in ounces of water a day.
- Move at least 30 mins per day.
- Give up one type of food.
By committing to these five things, we are being intentional about taking care of ourselves and working on our goals for the next 90 days. These five goals bleed over to other goals we are working on, and we end up starting the new year with a bang.
Here is how the Five to Thrive is working for me.
I wake up an hour earlier each morning and write my to-do list for the day. I break it down into three categories – Must-Dos – Should Dos and Would Like To-Dos. I tackle the Must-Dos first and work on those until it is time for me to get ready for the office. Depending on the day, I either get my exercise done in the morning, at lunch, or after work. Some days it is strength training, some days running and other days it is simply walking at lunch to get my 10,000 steps in for the day. It does not have to be a hardcore workout. Any movement for 30 mins counts! I drink my water throughout the day. This one is quite easy for me, as I love water, and it is the only thing I drink besides coffee and tea.
I tend to write what I am grateful for during the workday. These must be very specific and can’t be as general as “I am grateful for my family” or “I am grateful for my job.” For instance, yesterday, I wrote down that I was grateful that I have a boss that understands work/life balance. The last of the Five to Thrive is the hardest for me. I gave up chocolate candy. I LOVE chocolate, and with the holidays coming, I tend to buy it and dip my hand in the bag way too many times. Hopefully, this will keep me from purchasing peanut butter cups or candy cane Hershey kisses!
I can already see it working in my life. By committing to the Five to Thrive, it has given me the energy and the determination to tackle the other goals I have set for myself for the last 90 days of the year. Growing this blog is a massive goal of mine. I have committed to a certain number of posts a month, restarting my newsletters, hiring a Pinterest manager, committed to at least an hour a week of learning, and more. I have mapped out a new training plan for my 2020 races, recommitted to clean eating, and committed to losing ten pounds by the new year. My environment is another area I need to focus on. My house needs purging and organization. I feel so much better when the clutter is gone.
Looking back at 2019, are you happy with all that you have done? Are there goals on your list that you have not quite accomplished? Don’t wait until 2020. By this point in the year, many people decide to wait until the new year to work on their goals. Don’t be one of these people. Drop me a comment and let me know how you plan to finish 2019. Let’s stay motivated together.
On September 5, 2019, the school year started much like the prior years. The boys got up, I made them a special breakfast (one of the few times I do make breakfast), and I had them hold up signs telling the world what grade they were attending this year. However, this year was different. This year, I have a senior in high school. It would be the first of many lasts throughout the year. This would be the last “first day of school” photo he would take. It would be the last first day of school photo he takes with his brother. In 235 days, he will cross the football field and receive his diploma. In a year, he may be a few hours away from home enjoying college life. How did this happen?
On December 2, 2001, I held my sweet boy for the first time and thought of this day. I remember thinking, wow, he will graduate in 2020, thirty years from the day I graduated high school. I quickly pushed the thought aside. I mean come on, 2020 is so far away. It will be an eternity before it gets here. Not so much. Here we are 235 days until graduation.
I was lucky, both my boys were great sleepers. I never had those neverending nights that I wished would end. I did not wish away the infant stage. I mourned each stage as it ended. Yes, even the stage when my kid was a total jerk! He had his moments. Never mind the terrible twos, we had the f***ing fours! Even then, I never wished the days away. Now here we are, 235 days until graduation.
Robbie is our first, and the only one for almost four years. On October 19, 2005, he became a big brother to Nicholas. I want to say it was love at first sight, but this picture says otherwise.
Robbie enjoyed being the big brother. He had someone to share his childhood with and someone to boss around. There was a time where the boys did nothing but fight. It was terrible. However, now, I can say they are each other’s best friend. They share the same love and passion for sports. Nicholas looks up to his big brother, and Robbie thinks Nicholas is the smartest person he knows. The boys spend a lot of their free time together. Nicholas misses Robbie when he is away. It will be an adjustment for both of them. They have never been apart for more than a week at a time. My heart aches for them. Sigh…235 days until graduation.
Over the years, we have taken the boys on lots of vacations. I intended to show them as much of the world as I could before they left for school. There have been multiple trips to Cape Cod, New York, North Carolina, Washington, DC, Walt Disney World, Aruba, Disney cruises, Canada, Alaska, Europe, and more. When I look to the future, I see trips that include only three of us, not four of us like that past 14 years. We have less than a year to squeeze in as many family vacations as we can before other priorities take hold of our boy. He has only 235 days until graduation.
I look at my son, and I can’t help to think of my Mom. She adored this boy and thought he could do no wrong. They had an extremely close relationship. When she passed away five years ago, he was devastated. She was his biggest champion. She was to help guide him through these teen years. There was a time I was so afraid he would not get past her death. Well, he did, and I believe it is because she has been with him the whole time. In 235 days, she will be right by his side as he receives his diploma. In 235 days, I will whisper, “He did it, Mom.”
We are now in our second full month of school. We have a few more college visits planned. Robbie has retaken the SAT and started the application process. I thought I was doing okay. Then last Saturday night I received an e-mail with his senior photos. Once again, I was reminded 235 days until graduation.
#DONTBLINK
Last Saturday my BFF and I had the pleasure of visiting Alice in the Village over at Patriot Place. Alice in the Village is a unique store and tea room featuring the fictional characters of Alice in the Wonderland and Through the Looking Glass. I had wanted to go for months and was finally able to carve out some girl time and head on over.
Our tea time was at 11:00 a.m. sharp. The entrance to the tea room is a cute bakery and shop. You can drop in for a pastry, sandwiches, soup, and drinks. There is loose leaf tea for sale, along with dainty teacups, teapots and other accessories used in making and drinking tea.
Here are a couple of drink menus. As you can see, they sell much more than just tea.
The tea room is in the back of the Village. An adorable sign welcomes patrons to the Royal Tea Room.
We were the first to arrive and had our choice of tables. We picked one a couple of tables in and to the left. It gave me a good view of what was going on. The Village is not that big. Maybe it holds 50 people? It is cutely decorated and screams Queen of Hearts.
Our waitress greeted us in the most adorable uniform. It resembled the one Tweedle Dee, and Tweedle Dum wore in the movie. She handed us our menus and explained how the tea service worked. There were three tea services to choose from. First, was the Willy Wonka High Tea. This tea service runs from September- December. It includes sandwiches, quiche, soup, scones, dessert, tea, and a visit from the Candyman Trolley. The Willy Wonka High Tea is $78.00 for two or $117.00 for three people. Also, there is a children’s menu, Charlie’s Nursery Tea for $30.00 for children under 12. Here a peek at the menu.
Our other choices were the Wonderland Tea and The Queen of Hearts High Tea. We chose the Queen of Hearts High Tea. It was $110 for two or $165 for three. Honestly, I felt it was a great value.
We ordered our tea service and next had to decide what teas we would like to try. The tea menu is enormous. There are about 100 different teas, and I admit it was a bit overwhelming. Ultimately, I went with Florence and Kim went with Boston. Take a look at this tea menu.
As part of our tea service, we also were able to choose a Potion. A potion? Was the Queen trying to poison us? The “potion” is Butterfly Pea Tea. Butterfly Pea Tea is color changing iced teas.
Soon after our potions were mixed, our tea arrived. It was served in its own teapot with a choice of milk, sugar or honey. I love honey in my tea. The tea comes with is own hourglass. Once the sand runs through the hourglass, the tea is ready to drink.
Now, let’s talk about the menu. OH my, it did not disappoint. It began with a plate of cheeses, seasonal fruit, and warm french bread. Have I mentioned how much I love warm bread?
Next arrived a hot cup of tomato soup with a small quinoa salad. It had a bit of balsamic vinaigrette on the side.
While we digested our food, the tea kept coming. It was delicious. The tea was smooth and served at just the right temperature.
Next came the main course, along with the desserts, all served on a royal tower. There were four types of sandwiches, some salad, quiche, fresh scones, and tarts and dessert. It was a lot of food, but all of it looked amazing.
Wow! 
Dessert 
A little of everything. 
Macaron 
Mad Hatter’s hat 
An eclair with a gold crown.
Of the four kinds of sandwiches, the chicken salad was my favorite. I will admit, I skipped the salmon. I find nothing appealing about it. The pasta salad was pretty good, nothing special, but I enjoyed it. The quiche had mushrooms, and I believe cheddar cheese. It was excellent. The lemon tart was delicious, as was the macaron. I loved how it was in the shape of a heart. We each received a cranberry orange scone. I took that home and someone, other than me, ate it that evening. I swear, I can’t hide anything from the boys, including the husband! If our bellies weren’t full enough, we still had all these delicious desserts. The Mad Hatter’s hat was my favorite. It was filling with cream and a strawberry sponge-like cake. Yum! Also, I had put on the reservation that we were celebrating our birthdays, which was true, just a few months late. Our server surprised us with these beauties.
We had to be rolled out there! Alice in the Village did not disappoint. In addition to the fun atmosphere, (did I mention Disney music is playing throughout), the food was terrific. The service was excellent, and the details throughout the shop are incredible.
Curtain tieback 
Decor on the walls 
Look at the lights! 
Adorable clock 
Wall decor 
Place setting on tables 
The Queens chair 
Wall decor 
Mad Hatter
Alice in the Village is perfect for a girl’s day out. Perhaps a new tradition with your mom, daughter, or granddaughter. I noted on their website, Alice in the Village has some upcoming special events.
- Mad Hatter appearance during the NE patriots away games (dates TBD).
- October 25 – The Sanderson Sisters are being Resurrected at Foxboro! (tickets are needed).
- January – March: Special Harry Potter High Tea and pop-up.
Alice in the Village also hosts parties for children and adults alike. Make sure to hop on over to their website for more information. This was not a one time visit. I will back, even if it is to pop in for a hot cup of tea and a macaron while shopping.
Fall is my absolute favorite time of year. I love the cooler weather, the different colors across the trees, the smell of apples, and pumpkin spice. I mean, what is there not to like? Growing up in New England, I have been blessed with some beautiful Falls. New England has a LOT to offer this time of year, and I would like to share some of these with you.
Apple Picking
One of our family traditions is apple picking. With over 80 pick your own orchards in Massachusetts, each a bit different, it is hard to decide where to go. We have a family favorite, Honey Pot Hill Orchards in Stowe, MA.
We like Honey Pot for several reasons. First, the orchard has several varieties of apples. The orchard is quite large, and we never feel it is too crowded. Second, it is one of the few places that have ladders to climb the trees. I love that! For some reason, it makes a bit more fun and authentic. Third, APPLE CIDER DONUTS! Hello?!? These donuts melt in your mouth. Now I know many places sell them, but nothing compares to the ones we get at Honey Pot Hill Orchards. The orchard has farm animals, hayrides, three different mazes, pumpkins, a great farm store, and some food stands. New this year, a Cider Garden. They will be a Hard Cider Tent set up on the weekends. We are looking forward to trying that out.
cider donuts -photo courtesy of Honey Pot 
cute little pig – courtesy of Honey Pot
Go Leaf Peeping
The foliage in New England is GORGEOUS! Whether you want to make this a day trip or a weekend-long event, there is plenty of foliage to see among the New England states. Check out the best foliage drives here.
Pumpkin Festival
Did you know that Laconia, NH, has one of the best pumpkin festivals in the country? Neither did I until I started researching for this piece. Each year, New Hampshire residents attempt to amass the largest number of lit jack o lanterns in one place, trying to meet or beat the world record, which the festival held for many years. The festival held mid-October attracts approximately 40,000-50,000 people each year. This year it will be held October 18th and 19th. There will be amusement park rides, a beer garden, music on the streets, a zombie walk, pumpkin displays, yummy food, which of course includes pumpkin everything and a five and a 10k on the morning of the 19th. Also, there are children’s games like pedal tractor pulls, corn hole, and more. There is fun for the whole family. We will be in Maine that weekend visiting colleges, so I am sad we are unable to attend. However, I will be sure to add it to my list for the following year.
The North American Wife Carrying Championship
Yes, folks, you heard it right. Such a thing exists! Sunday River in Maine is the second largest ski resort in New England. It is also home to The North American Wife Carrying Championship. This annual event is held over Columbus Day Weekend. Ironically, it does not have to be your wife that gets carried across a 278-yard obstacle course. It can be any woman of your choosing. The woman is thrown over the man’s shoulder. She is hauled across the course with her legs wrapped around a man’s neck and her arms around his waist. The obstacle course is made up of mud, logs, dirt, deep grass, and water, where her head is bound to get wet. A Finnish couple has won the event since 2013. This event coincides with the ski resort’s annual festival with chairlifts rides, live bands, food & beer tents and craft fairs.
4th Annual Harvest Festival at the Newport Vineyards
Newport is a seaside town in Rhode Island known for its historic mansions and sailing history. It hosted America’s Cup for many years. Next to Newport is the town of Middleton, home to Newport Vineyards. In addition to being a winery, Newport Vineyard has a brewery that offers fresh craft beer and a farm to table focused menu. There are events such as
This two-day event is Saturday, October 26th and Sunday, October 27th from noon -5:00 pm. It is two days of grape stomping (yes you read that right), sipping delicious wine or beer and eating delectable food. Or perhaps you are a pie lover? There is a pie-eating contest too! The cost of the event is $25.00 per person and includes up to 7 samplings of wine or beer. Children under 15 are free.
Viewing Foliage from High Above the Trees
For the adventurous leaf peepers, Connecticut offers a unique way to see the beauty that a New England Fall has to offer. Tree climbing, ziplining, and adrenaline-pumping rock climbing is some of the ways to take in vibrant hues of the season. Empower Leadership
Hiking with the Family
Not to be missed is the beautiful state of Vermont. Vermont is known for its yummy maple syrup and over 100 19th century covered bridges. It is also a great place to take a hike and see the beauty of The Green Mountain State. We are not that family that can hike for hours. Yes, I can run a marathon, but hiking up mountains for hours is not in the cards. However, we do love the outdoors and seeing the beauty around us. Here are 5 Kid-Friendly Hikes for your family to enjoy.
Cape Cod
Cape Cod is a hot vacation spot in the summer, but did you know that the Fall is one of the best times to visit this New England gem. The crowds are low, but a fair amount of restaurants are still open. House rentals are often half the price, and the beaches are there for all to enjoy. My sister and her husband head down the last week of September each year. Last September we tagged along for a weekend. We enjoyed hanging at the house, walking to the beach and a tour to see the seals that gather each year in Chatham, MA. I highly recommend the Monomoy Island Excursion. It is quite the site to see.
Salem, Massachusetts
The best place to be around Halloween, is Salem, Massachusetts. Salem is North of Boston and is famous for its witch trials in the 1600s. There are over 500 different events during October to
- Haunted Footsteps Ghost Tour Salem Witch Museum
- Peabody Essex Museum
- Halloween Cruises
- Bewitched After Dark Salem Walking Tours
- The People vs Bridget Bishop
- Gallows Hill
- Salem Witch Museum
- Salem Wax Museum
Oh, and before you leave, make sure to stop by Enchanted. It is a magical shop for “witches & muggles” It is home to Laurie Cabot, Salem’s official witch. You can read about Laurie here.
Last, but certainly not least, Sitting by the Fire
Probably one of my absolute favorite things to do in the Fall, sitting out on the patio, cuddled up by the fire enjoying the cool, but pleasant weather. As New Englanders, we need to enjoy this season much as we can because we all know what comes after Fall.
